As a musician, I find my most powerful songs and my best delivery to come from subjects I feel strongly about. The topics that musicians currently seem to find the hardest to write about recently are the ones that used to flow so easily. I grew up listening to the likes of Luther Vandross, Stevie Wonder, Marvin Gaye and Sade in my father cars on those long journeys to visit relatives. Needless to say love was a familiar topic. Growing up watching Disney films, it seems Walt Disney believed that love conquered all. So what has changed?
Rappers have not always been the easiest human beings to show their true feelings. Maybe it is believed that it could show weakness which is hardly something an alleged ‘Gang Banger’ would want to show. However the canadian rapper Drake has seemed to take the stereo type and flip it on its head. Despite the light skin jokes that seem to be on a rise with every release of a Drake studio album, he is a very large commodity particularly within the hip-hop community. So what is the correct way to demonstrate how you feel in a song?
No man wants to be seen as soft to anyone besides his girl and even then she can not see him as only that. It is claimed that fear is a motivator. It can be the difference between the levels of respect you have for two different people i.e. a adult and a child. This may be the reason why many artist rarely show that side of themselves to their fans. Maybe record labels have decided it is not lucrative enough. Beyonce however seemed to dwell in it particularly in her recent smash hit entitled ‘drunk in love’.
One thing is for sure. Despite the half naked models and all the ass shaking and twerking going on, most of these singers and rappers are in very fulfilling relationships. I watch Charlemagne tha God hit on women (albeit playfully) on the breakfast club online videos of their radio show and wonder how do their partners react to this? Do they understand that it is part of the job? Do they occasionally wonder?
I want to end by saying that I feel love is a good thing. Not to disrespect any artist and the music they are currently producing but music from the 70’s and 80’s seem to live forever as they are being covered and sampled by today’s artists. I’m not sure how often songs that we listen to today will be replayed. Today’s artists that do sing or rap about love seem to be ahead of their peers. Drake, Justin Bieber, One Direction, Adele. Hard to argue with the numbers they push through in terms of album sales. So maybe we need to bring love back. We need to bring back rnb….?!?
Mahatma Gandhi said ‘where there is love, there is life’
Peace and love
C.O. the artist